How To Have Sex In A Tub (step-by-step Guide)
Okay, so, you’re thinking about… bathtub adventures, huh? Totally get it. It’s a classic for a reason! There’s something so steamy and intimate about getting all sudsy together. It’s like a little private spa session, but with way more… action. So, if you’re curious about how to make this watery wonderland a reality, pull up a chair, grab your metaphorical coffee (or, you know, actual tea if that’s your vibe), and let’s chat about it. We’re going to break it down, nice and easy. No pressure, just… possibilities. You ready?
First things first: communication. I know, I know, so adult. But seriously, this is the bedrock of any good time, in or out of the tub. Have you guys even talked about this before? Is it something you’re both equally excited about? Or is one of you just kind of going along for the ride? Make sure you’re both on the same page, mentally and physically. A quick “Hey, I was thinking it could be fun to try… you know, in the tub?” can go a long way. Gauge their reaction. Are they blushing? Nodding enthusiastically? Giving you that playful smirk? Perfect. If it’s a hesitant “Uh, maybe?” then maybe you have a different conversation to have first. But assuming you’re both game? Let’s dive in!
Next up: the setup. This isn’t just about turning on the tap and hopping in. Oh no, my friend. This is about creating an experience. Think ambiance! What’s the vibe you’re going for? Romantic and candlelit? Fun and playful? A little bit of both? Candles are your best friend here. Just be super careful with them around water. No one wants a flaming bath. Trust me on this one. Maybe battery-operated ones are a safer bet if you’re feeling a little clumsy. Dim lighting is also key. Harsh overhead lights are the enemy of romance.
Music? Absolutely. What’s your shared playlist for… intimate moments? Something smooth? Something upbeat? Whatever sets your souls (and other body parts) alight. And don’t forget the towels. You’ll need plenty. One for each of you, and maybe an extra one for… strategic placement. You know, for when things get a little slippery. And speaking of slippery, let’s talk about soap.
Soap. The great enabler. Or the great… annoyer. You don’t want a crazy amount of bubbles that obscure everything, do you? That’s like trying to have a deep conversation in a fog bank. A little bit of bubble bath is nice. It adds to the sensory experience. But too much? It can get… well, let’s just say it can get messy, and not in the good way. Think about the consistency of the suds. You want something that feels good, not something that’s going to sting your eyes or make it impossible to get a grip. Maybe a nice, silky body wash is a better option than a super foamy bubble bath. Just a thought! And waterproof toys? If that’s your jam, now’s the time to bring them out.
Now, the star of the show: getting in. This is where the teamwork comes in. Is the water at the right temperature? You don’t want to scald yourselves, and you definitely don’t want to be shivering. A good, warm temperature is usually the sweet spot. Slowly ease in. Don’t just cannonball it, unless that’s your specific brand of crazy. It’s more about the gentle seduction, right? Helping each other in, a gentle hand on the back, a shared smile. That’s the good stuff.
Once you’re both settled, it’s time to get… acquainted. The water can be a bit of a lubricant in itself, which is a nice bonus. But things can also get a little challenging in terms of positioning. You’re going to be a bit more confined than usual. So, what works? Think about what positions are comfortable for both of you. Spooning is a classic for a reason. It’s cozy, it’s intimate, and it allows for a lot of closeness. One person can be in front, the other behind, with arms wrapped around. It’s a good starting point.
Another popular option is facing each other. This allows for more eye contact and kissing. You might need to adjust your legs a bit. Maybe one person’s legs are over the other’s shoulders, or you’re sitting with your legs intertwined. Experiment! This is the time to be playful and adventurous. Don’t be afraid to try something new. If it feels awkward, laugh about it and try something else. The key is to find what feels good for both of you. And remember, the water can make things extra slippery. So, a good grip is your friend.
Navigating the "Wet Zone"
So, you’re in, you’re cozy, you’re… exploring. What next? Well, you’ve got the natural buoyancy of the water to work with, which can be fun. It can make certain movements feel a little lighter, a little more fluid. But it can also make it harder to get a solid hold. This is where those extra towels might come in handy for drying off certain areas for better grip, or for creating a bit of a barrier if needed. You know, discretion is the better part of valor… and also, preventing accidental slips!
Oral sex in the tub? Totally doable, and can be a very sensual experience. The warmth of the water can be really lovely. Again, it’s all about positioning and making sure you’re comfortable. One person might lean back against the edge of the tub, while the other is kneeling or sitting in front of them. Experiment with different angles until you find what’s most comfortable and enjoyable for everyone involved. Don’t be shy about using your hands to help guide and support. The water can also make certain things feel… different. So, be open to new sensations!
Penetrative sex? Yes, it’s possible! But it can be a little trickier. You’re not going to have the same freedom of movement as you would on a bed. Think about positions that allow for depth and stability. You might find that sitting with one person’s legs wrapped around the other’s waist works well. Or perhaps one person sitting on the edge of the tub, with the other standing in front. Again, it’s all about finding what works for your bodies and your comfort levels. And if it’s not as deep as you’d like, don’t get discouraged! There are still plenty of ways to enjoy intimacy.
Dealing with the Unexpected (and the Slippery Bits)
Let’s be real. Things can get a little… chaotic in a bathtub. You might find yourselves giggling uncontrollably. You might slip and slide. You might even accidentally splash water everywhere. And that’s okay! The most important thing is to keep it light and fun. If you’re stressing about perfection, you’re going to miss out on the joy of it. Embrace the silliness. Laugh at yourselves. This is a chance to be playful and connect with your partner in a different way.
And the whole “slippery” factor? It’s both a blessing and a curse, right? A blessing because it can feel amazing and add to the sensation. A curse because, well, you could end up taking a tumble. So, be mindful of your footing. Use the sides of the tub for support. And if things are getting too slippery and you’re feeling unsafe, it’s perfectly okay to pause, adjust, or even get out for a moment. Your safety and comfort are paramount. Nobody wants a trip to the emergency room interrupting their romantic escapade. Ouch.
Post-Tub Bliss (and Cleanup)
So, you’ve had your steamy soak and your… aquatic adventures. What now? Don’t just jump out and leave a watery mess, unless you’re into that kind of thing. A little bit of post-tub cuddling in some warm towels can be incredibly romantic. Dry off, wrap yourselves up, and continue the intimacy. Maybe you have some nice lotion ready for a massage. Or perhaps you just want to lie there, skin to skin, feeling all warm and relaxed.
And, of course, there’s the cleanup. It’s not the most glamorous part, but it’s necessary. Just a quick rinse of the tub, maybe a wipe down. And then, you can both relax. You’ve conquered the bathtub! You’ve had a unique and intimate experience. How cool is that? You can definitely add this to your repertoire of fun things to do together. It’s a great way to spice things up and create new memories. So go forth, my friends, and may your baths be both bubbly and… satisfying.
Remember, the most important ingredient is always consent and enthusiasm. Make sure you’re both actively participating and enjoying yourselves. If something doesn’t feel right, speak up. This should be a positive and pleasurable experience for everyone. So, are you ready to take the plunge? I mean, literally? Heh. Have fun out there!